You'd be amazed at how different and attractive you'll feel once you get control over excessive body hair, and women will find you more attractive... trust me on this one. Also, when you trim the hair really short around your penis, it will actually look bigger, cleaner, and more attractive. Try it, and then judge.
Also, you'll find that women are much more likely to give you oral sex when you keep that area nice and neat. Nobody likes getting their eyes poked out with pubies, so mow the lawn!

Also, get one of those nose hair trimmers, and use it. No nose hair EVER! Women do NOT find it sexy.

8) Learn how to have a good time by yourself (and I don't mean with your hand... you pervert!). Learn what fun things there are to do in your area. Learn how to be a tour guide for your dates.
Show them a good time, and they will appreciate you for it. Again, this goes back to the thing about noticing details. If you know all the fun things to do in your town, she'll see you as someone she can look to for a good time... both in the bedroom and out.

That means you have to get off your ass and go learn about your area. Go to the zoo, and learn something interesting about it. If you have a favorite coffee shop, take her there and recommend something to her that you know is unique and tasty.
Make sure you take her to places that you go to anyway. When you're on a date, you're bringing her into your reality... so show her around, and help her have a good time. Also, this might sound simple, but in order to be able to show a woman a good time, you have to know how to have a good time. Believe it or not, it's a simple skill that can be developed.

Practice makes perfect.

9) Know how to dance. Now I realize that this is damn scary for some men, because I used to be terrified of dancing. To be honest, I still don't know how to "freestyle" dance... like at nightclubs and bars, but I have learned how to do the structured dances that require specific steps in a specific order.
Try it, go and take a ballroom dancing class, and you will be amazed at how easy it is. Learn how to do swing, salsa, cha cha, etc. Also, the ratio is usually about 15 women to 5 men... and
usually the men are there with their wives, so being one of the only single men in the place puts you at a huge advantage.
Believe me, I understand what it's like to be afraid of dancing, but give it a shot anyway. Ballroom dancing is actually more fun than going to a plain old nightclub anyway. You'll generally meet women who are more educated, and higher class than you'd find in a bar or nightclub... and to me, that alone is worth going.