Exercise: Write down the answers to the following questions.

Beautiful women see me as the kind of guy who __________.
Realistically, the best kind of woman that I can get is probably __________.
A really beautiful woman might not be interested in me because __________.
The reason I haven't met the right woman yet is __________.
Did those answers give you an idea of how you might be unconsciously sabotaging yourself? You see, if you want a beautiful woman, but you don't think you are worthy of having that kind of woman in your life... or you don't think that she'll stay interested in you for a long time, then you will unconsciously sabotage yourself.

You'll walk up to a woman and start talking to her, and you'll say things that will actually cause her to not like you. And then you'll sit there and just throw your hands up and say, "Geez, it's really true... beautiful women really DON'T like me."

It's important to choose your beliefs deliberately, otherwise you'll always be at the effect of them. Let me explain. Your beliefs were all formed unconsciously when you were very young, and you're still carrying them with you today.

The problem is that those beliefs were formed by a VERY young version of you. Now let me ask you something. Would you ask a 4 year old child for help with doing your taxes, or help with your sex life? Of course not!

So why are you going to let a 4 year old child literally control how you experience your life? Believe it or not, that's what you're actually doing when you let your old beliefs, that you didn't choose consciously, run your life.

Try this exercise. Decide what you WANT to believe about yourself with regards to women, and write those beliefs down. Make sure that the beliefs are stated in the positive. Here are a few examples:

• I know that women are interested in me, because I brighten up people's lives when I come into the picture.

• I know that I have a lot of value to offer a woman.

• I put my best effort into everything I do.

• I only attract high quality women.