It's important to experiment with different beliefs. Writing down beliefs is also not enough. You must focus on those beliefs every single day. Read them over and over, and say them out loud. The more attention you put on your beliefs, the faster you will draw that reality to you.
Over the next week, I want you to pay attention to what you say to yourself inside your mind when it comes to women. If you see a beautiful girl standing around in the mall, and you are attracted to her... notice what you say to yourself about her. Do you say things like:
Nah, she probably has a boyfriend anyway.
She's hot, but she probably doesn't like guys like me.
Damn, I can't get a woman like THAT.
Pay attention to what you say to yourself, and it will reveal some of the limiting
beliefs that you have around women. Then... when you discover them one at a
time, you can choose one of your new, powerful beliefs instead.
Remember, it's your mind, and you are the one who gets to control the contents
of it. When you learn to master this, you will have an unbelievable command
over this area of your life called women and dating.
How do I get a girl to return my calls?
How many times has it happened to you? You get a girl's phone number, and you're
excited to be getting to know someone new. Your mind is going crazy, and you
can't help but be just a little bit nervous.
• Is she nice?
• Is she bitchy?
• Did she give me her number because she likes me, or because she wanted to get rid of me?