TECHNIQUE #3 - THE WATER FLOWER This technique requires a little more preparation than the others, but it's well worth it. Before you go into the restaurant, go buy a unique flower from a florist. Not something expensive, but not something you can buy at a convenience store either. And don't buy a rose. It's a bit too much, and she'll think you're a stalker, or you're in love with her. Just pick something interesting that isn't seen all over the place. Keep the flower hidden in a bag, and go sit down. Next, after she brings your drinks... ask her to go back and get you a glass of water.

It's important to ask her to get the water AFTER she brings your drinks, especially if you're with friends. Why? Because she'll have her attention completely on your water for a few moments, and that'll be a perfect opportunity to do the next part. After she places the water on your table and turns around to
walk away, QUICKLY put the flower in the water. Next, quickly say

"Hey wait, there's something in my drink (this will make her turn around, and probably be a bit annoyed)... and it's for you". Then you'll really catch her off guard with the flower, because she'll be in a mental mode where she's thinking "Oh no, I gave him a dirty glass"... or something similar. She'll probably say something like "Aww, that's really nice of you". It doesn't matter. What you want is to be in the front of her mind, and the way to do that is to just say, "Hey, you're beautiful just like that flower.

Bring it into the kitchen, so it helps to remind you that there are still some people in the world who think you're cool... probably not TOO many, but some". That last part is a bit of a joke, and it'll get a laugh out of her. Plus, she'll go back and show the flower to all the other waitresses, which will make EVERYONE there remember you favorably. Good luck, and be sure to email me and let me know how this worked for you. I know I've used these 3 techniques on dozens of waitresses, and they always get a positive reaction.

How do I get a girl's attention?

Whenever I call a girl to talk or ask her out, she doesn't return my phone calls. What am I doing wrong, and what can I do differently?

Okay, let's start by defining the kind of attention that you want from her.
You see, getting a girl's attention itself is meaningless, but getting a girl's favorable attention is something entirely different.