Many people find it amazing when I explain the power that questions have over your ability to meet women. I'm not talking about the kind of questions that you ask a woman. I'm talking about the questions you ask yourself habitually... that you may not even be aware of.
I remember when I would see a beautiful woman nearby, and I was just dying to go up and talk to her. I would check my hair, make sure my breath was clean... and then I would stomp out all chances of me talking to her by asking myself some really horrible questions.
I would ask things like:
• What can I possibly offer a woman like that? Look at her, she has so
many options.
• Am I really good looking enough to be talking to a girl who's that attractive?
• How am I going to pull this off and get her number? I don't even know
what to say.
Why are questions important?
Questions are important, because they literally determine what you focus on
in your mind. Let me give you a real world example of how questions either work
for you or against you in your everyday life.
Let's say there's a man who wants to meet women on the internet using the personals.
He replied to a few personal ads, and got no responses back. He starts to ask
himself things like:
• Why haven't these girls written me back?
• What's wrong with me that they don't want to talk to me?
• Why am I even bothering with this internet personals crap?
• Why can't I seem to meet women on the net... what's my problem?