So that brings me back to my original point... make sure that you are a positive interruption, not an annoying or energy draining one.

Seriously, practice this... sprinkle some light into people's lives, mix in some humor, and then walk away... without asking for anything.

You'll soon find that people are always trying to be near you, because... and here's the secret guys... they feel better about themselves when they are around you.
Listen, you don't need to sell a girl on the benefits of having a boyfriend. She already knows that having a companion is a good thing. But you do need to convey to her that you are the best choice for a boyfriend... especially when she's got a fresh daily supply of eager men, who would gladly worship the ground she walks on.

Think about car commercials for a second. They don't try to sell you on the fact that you need a car to get places quickly and easily. They already know that you understand the benefits of owning a car. Every car essentially does the same thing.

No, what they try to sell you on is the RIDE... the experience of driving their particular car. Let me explain. If you watch car commercials carefully, you'll see that they are trying to convince you that their car will provide you with the most enjoyable and pleasurable ride to wherever you're going.

They already know that you want a car, that's a given, but which one? Do you want the red sports car that looks cool, because
you think that will impress young women? Or is it the luxurious and elegant sedan that
shows people what a success you are?

Actually, none of those things have anything to do with the car itself. Owning an expensive car doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you can afford an expensive car (and sometimes it's saying you can just barely afford the payments). Buying a certain kind of car will not automatically make you famous, attractive, and have women throwing their panties at you.

But if you believe that it will, then you will always choose that brand of car. The mind is a funny thing isn't it?

Similarly, if a girl feels attraction and interest toward you... and she knows that she's going to feel really good when she's around you... she will do whatever it takes to be near you.