Lousy questions that make you feel bad about yourself:
• What do I really have to offer a woman anyway? (Said in a negative derogatory tone... as if to imply that you really don't have anything to offer.)
• I wonder if she has a boyfriend? (When has this question ever helped you meet a woman?)
• Would she even find me attractive?
• What should I say to her in order to get her to like me? (People pleasing behavior rarely ever makes people actually like you. Never focus on controlling the way other people see you.)
Great questions that make you feel good about yourself, and help you meet women:
• I wonder what she's like. What's interesting about this person?
• What can I notice about her that I can comment on... so I can get the conversation rolling?
• Hrmm... is this going to be easy, or REALLY easy? (Ask yourself this one just before you walk up and talk to a girl.)
• What's something funny that I can comment on in this environment... something we can both agree with? (This takes your attention off your own feelings, and puts your focus on finding something that you can share in common. Example: Hey, did you lose your hat? - said in a department store, while holding up THE most ridiculous hat you could find in the hat rack.)
• What would happen if I decided that no matter what... I wasn't going to get this girl's phone number... but instead I'm just going to have as much fun with her as possible? (This takes the pressure off "getting the number", and puts the focus on having fun, and helping her have fun with you too.)

These questions are powerful if you use them in your daily life. You never have to be afraid of talking to women again. All it takes is directing your focus to something fun and positive, and then just going up and talking to her.

The side benefit of this is that you will feel good about yourself, and have a lot more fun talking to girls. I know too many guys who make a full time job out of meeting women. They treat the women as if they are just some task that they have to get out of the way, and so they are extra hard on themselves if they don't get the result they were hoping for (phone number, or scheduling a date, sex).